B is for… Bravo!
Contributed by Tina Holland.
We’re so good at pushing forward—chasing the next goal, starting the next project—that we forget to acknowledge what we’ve already done.
Recently, I published How to Love a Lord, and instead of enjoying it, I jumped straight into the next book… and started a short story. (To be fair, that short story is due this month—but still.) I should have savored that soft release a little more.
Instead, everything started to feel rushed—finessing the paperback, juggling deadlines, moving on too quickly.
Truthfully? I need to pause long enough to congratulate myself.
Because this is what I usually do:
For every 1,000 words? I get a sticker.
Yes, really—and it’s become such a thing that I now buy stickers before I even start the book.
Every 5,000 words, I level up the reward:
- Flowers
- A bookstore trip
- A small online splurge (I match dollars to word count—$30 for 30K)
And when the book finally goes up for preorder? That calls for a proper celebration. I usually convince my dear husband to take me out to dinner—anything from fancy to a cozy night in where he cooks.
It’s a little like turning writing into a game… and honestly? It works.
Now I just need to apply that same energy to the rest of my life. (Imagine folding laundry for points. Revolutionary.)
So here’s your moment:
Bravo.
For showing up.
For creating.
For growing—even in ways no one else can see.
What have you accomplished lately? And how are you celebrating it?

I like your system of self-reward!
Thanks! I find it really helps me get through projects.
Tina, you are “write”! I need to figure out something 🙂
Bravo for rewards! They have been serving as incentive for a long time and they probably always will.