Tag: Rachel Wilder

  • J Is For… Just In Case!

    By Rachel Wilder.

    If you discover that the shelves are empty at your grocery store and can’t find what you need, it’s not because of overseas conflicts, politics, transportation issues, or the fault of last-minute panicked hoarders. It’s because you have dismal short-term memory skills and haven’t done anything to be prepared, even after 2020. So don’t bother now, you’ll just add to the mess. It was your decision to do nothing.

    But your pet? They didn’t have a choice and can only rely on whether or not you actually care or thought about them before an emergency happens.

    Emergency Planning for Your Pet: the Basics

    • 5 days or a week supply of food for your pet. Consistently.
    • Medications- refill before you run out. Consider having light sedatives on hand, like those used for fireworks, to help keep them calm.
    • Vet records- easy to find and put in a gallon zip-lock bag.
    • Leashes and collars with current information attached.
    • Microchip.

    Plan to take your pet if you evacuate.

    • Sturdy carrier or kennel and the things needed for your pet to stay in it. Dishes, litter box, litter, scoops. Favorite toys and blanket.
    • Water- more than you think, in case you need to rinse them off.
    • Evacuation plan. Who can you go to if you must leave your home? Family, friends and hotels. Many shelters won’t let you keep them with you- remember Hurricane Katrina?

    • Emergency sticker for your home placed by the front door showing that you have pets that need rescuing inside and remembering to mark ‘evacuated’ or ‘safe’ when you leave with them.
    • If you plan to shelter in place- like in the event of a tornado or storm- plan for them as well- but do NOT hesitate to leave your home if that is a safer alternative. Deciding at the last-minute limits your options.

     

    Think of them first, and think of them now. Because to them, you always come first.

    Resources

    There are many websites to help you.  Here are a few to get you started:

     

  • Happy New Year!

     

    Welcome to the new year, Gardeners! I’m excited for the new year to start. We have a lot of ideas for content and good stuff to put out there, which I think is especially needed in today’s world.

    As I write this, we are still snowed in here in our part of the world. We had unseasonably low temperatures coupled with snow that came down to the lowlands west of the Cascades, and we’re just not prepared for it. Between the hills and mountainous terrain and the lack of snow plows and other severe weather gear, the Seattle area really shut down for the most part. Since Omicron is on the rise and it’s not particularly safe or recommended to go out, this worked out.

    It’s hard to believe that we’re coming up on the second anniversary of A Good Yarn – Craft Salon & Makerspace, our weekly craft circles. We’ve collectively made our way, literally, through the year, building friendships along the way. These will definitely continue on Saturdays at noon Pacific; drop me a comment below if you’d like to be included. I’ll need a good email for you; if you’d rather not put that in comments, please email me at noony AT acatherinenoon DOT com.

    We have a plan for some new posts over the next three months. We won’t be back to our daily frequency, but we are dipping our collective toes in the water once or twice a month. Since it’s more than one of us, you’ll have some good content to read over the next twelve weeks.

    And in April, you can look forward to another year of the A to Z Blog Challenge! We’re working on selecting a theme for this year; if you have some ideas or suggestions, drop them in the comments below. We’d love to hear.

    Last but not least, if you haven’t joined our FB group, please come on by! You can find it here.

    That’s all for now, Gardeners. But remember: make something, write something, create something. It’ll make you feel better.

    Cheers!

  • Self-Care Saturdays – Every Saturday During October, Come Spend Some Time in Makerspace

    The world is on fire and our democracy is under attack, but by G*d we can MAKE something. And making things feeds the soul, which keeps us resilient and helps us develop and nurture the strength we need for the challenges ahead.

    Join us each Saturday in October for a two hour block of time in which to relax, create, dream, and share community. Try a new craft or work on an old one. Pick up some mending. Play in your journal. Work on a puzzle. Color in a design. Or just hang out and take in the vibe.

    Click here to sign up, and I’ll send you the Zoom meeting details for your date(s) of choice.

    Also, vote.

  • New Workshop Starting June 14th: Finding Water | The Art of Perseverance (free)

    This is your invitation to come back to your center, to find the water at the bottom of the well, to become your own divining rod for your creativity. Join me. Together, we will find a way through.

    In March of this year, the Pandemic hit in full force and thus began The Great Pause. Stores closed. Supply chains were disrupted. Toilet paper became a hot commodity along with soap and hand sanitizer. People started gardening in record numbers. Children were homeschooled while parents struggled to work from home or, worse, lost their jobs and had to file for unemployment or make other arrangements.

    If you, like me, are heartsick and devastated, know that you are not alone. I am in pain, and yet I know my pain and outrage is nothing compared to what our Black and Brown friends, neighbors, and family members are experiencing: not just today, but all the time.

    As I write this, riots and protests are happening across the globe. The murder of George Floyd has sparked off a powder keg. Our communities are traumatized, enraged, and demand justice.

    I can’t fix that alone. And it’s not even about me, and it’s not about my outrage. If you feel, as I do, that things must change, there are many good resources and voices of color whom you can listen to, learn from, and support. If you need ideas, please PM me and I’ll share what resources I have. If you have resources to share, please PM me so I can learn and amplify their reach.

    But this brings me to you and me. If you are reading this, you are a fellow writer, struggling with your words to find Story and your own Truth. Me too.

    On Sunday, June 14, 2020, I will be hosting a free online workshop using Julia Cameron’s third book in the Artist’s Way trilogy as our guide: Finding Water | the Art of Perseverance. I picked this one because the idea of this book is around how to fend off prolonged creative dry spells, or how to come out of one if you’ve fallen into one. Cameron has given her tools away for free with two stipulations: facilitators must do the work with participants, in her words, “No gurus.” And second, we cannot charge for this work.

    I’ve facilitated Artist’s Way workshops since 2007 both in person and online. I find the tools deeply resonate with me and have helped me become and stay prolific. Right now, I’ve been struggling with finding that place of creativity, even while I have been outwardly creative: I’ve been journaling like crazy and weaving. But I’m not comfortable within myself, and that’s what I want to change. The collective trauma we were already experiencing with the pandemic (and over 100,000 dead in the U.S. alone; over 371,000 thousand worldwide as of this writing) has been added to by excessive police violence and racism. Let’s be clear here: the racist acts have not changed. What’s changed is they’re being filmed. While this is traumatic for many of us, for our beloved POC neighbors, friends, and family members this is daily lived experience. Yes, we are experiencing a trauma. My hope is, though, that we can come through this as a portal, not fall into it as a hole. With hard work we can emerge stronger, more equitable, more aware, and more creative.

    Join me on this journey. The only thing necessary is the willingness to be open, to experience, and to be honest with yourself.

    We begin Sunday, 06/14/2020.

    Workshop details below:

    The workshop will take place on our online forum, located https://writerzengarden.com/forums/

    . If you haven’t already done so, please sign up for a free user account. We will be together for 14 weeks. Each week starts on Sunday. We will use a combination of Zoom calls (in person) and written discussion. I will announce the schedule for the Zoom calls when we get closer to the workshop start date.

    Introductory Week:  Discuss the basic tools.  Share our goals and hopes, and maybe even a fear or two.  Figure out what we’re about so we can get the most out of the coming weeks.

    Week 1:  Uncovering a Sense of Optimism

    Week 2:  Uncovering a Sense of Reality

    Week 3:  Uncovering a Sense of Support

    Week 4:  Uncovering a Sense of Balance

    Week 5:  Uncovering a Sense of Autonomy

    Week 6:  Uncovering a Sense of Resolve

    Week 7:  Uncovering a Sense of Resilience

    Week 8:  Uncovering a Sense of Truth

    Week 9:  Uncovering a Sense of Perspective

    Week 10:  Uncovering a Sense of Safety

    Week 11:  Uncovering a Sense of Discipline

    Week 12:  Uncovering a Sense of Perseverance

    Wrap Up:  Look back and review what we’ve gained.  Look forward and figure out what next steps we want to take.  Honor the work, and play, we’ve done.

    Please let me know if you have any questions or issues. My email is noony AT acatherinenoon DOT com.

  • Z Is For… Zygote!

    Photograph of white flowers.

    A zygote is a fertilized egg. Or, a symbol of new beginnings. We are at the end of the A to Z Challenge, but that doesn’t mean the fun stops. We will keep writing.

    The world around us has changed, and some of those changes will be long-term if not permanent. Other changes are shorter term, and still deeply impact us. And we, left in the middle, must still find a way to move forward.

    Here are five suggestions for doing just that: continuing to be creative in the midst of the Great Pause.

    1. Meditate. You don’t need any special skills or tools, either. Just set a timer for five or ten minutes and focus on your breath. Count your inhale as 1. The next inhale as 2. The next inhale as 3. And so on, up through 10. When you get to 10, start over at 1.
    2. Make yourself a cup of tea or your favorite beverage. Sit down in a comfortable spot, or quiet place, and enjoy drinking it.
    3. Take a long, hot shower or bath. Really do it up. Light some candles, play some music, and let yourself enjoy the process.
    4. Spend some time making something.  If you have a craft that you’ve played with, pick it up and spend a half hour with it. If you haven’t got one yet, take a look on google for easy crafts you can do at home. In fact, here’s a link you can try.
    5. Make some time with a friend or family member for a video chat. Don’t just use voice; there’s a magic that happens when you see people close to you. Google Hangouts, Skype, Facebook Messenger, and Zoom all have free video calls.

    What about you? What are some of your favorite tools to keep yourself sane during the Great Pause?

    Thank you for joining us for the A to Z Challenge. Keep writing!

  • V Is For… Vehicle Preparedness!

    Contributed by Rachel Wilder.

    At some point in our lives our faithful wheels are going to let up down. Right now, we might be thinking about what we could have had in our houses to make ‘sheltering at home’ easier but hopefully in a few weeks we’ll be back on the road. And, it’s not going to be a world-wide event that puts us in danger but perhaps a rusty nail.

    Picture of wrecked car on tow truck with caption reading: Sad car sorry for letting you down.

    First off, before you think about getting a kit consider making one yourself. It will be cheaper and you’ll have control over the quality of items in it. Also, you can get a few items at a time and tailor it to your environment.

    Before a kit, though, make sure you have your car insurance in your glove box and towing and taxi service phone numbers in your phone, or old school and printed on a card. Make sure you have an extra phone charger cord in there as well. Consider joining AAA, they really are helpful for the low cost of membership. And all the proper tools to change a flat tire or jump start your battery, won’t do any good if you don’t know how. If you can’t find anyone to show you, then watch some YouTube videos.

    You might not have the room or money for everything below, but even a few items could make a huge difference in your safety. Even if your kit doesn’t have items to fix the problem yourself, have items in your vehicle that make the wait for help better. Even something as simple as water or an extra old coat.

    Picture of example car kit.

    Car Kit

    • Small duffle bag to put this all in (Walmart $6-8) or a cheapy backpack
    • I have a small fleece blanket folded over the duffle to help hide it.
    • A blanket (mine is folded flat and used as a cargo liner)
    • A gallon of water
    • Easy to keep snack foods in the cooler months.
    • Empty plastic gas container
    • Jumper cables, long ones like 16-18 feet
    • A flashlight with fresh batteries
    • Head lamp
    • A tire pressure gauge
    • Good spare tire and know how to get to it
    • Good jack (Walmart has a 2 ton in a carrying case that could go under duffle for 24.99)
    • Lug wrench one looks like an X (Walmart 14.99)
    • Glow sticks
    • A first-aid kit (mainly blood flow stuff, medical scissors) latex gloves
    • Hand wipes & sanitizer
    • Ziplock bag w/ Kleenex
    • Work gloves
    • Extra hat & scarf (two hats for cold and sun)
    • Extra clothes
    • Walking shoes\boots (throw in those old gym shoes)
    • Cheap reflective vest
    • Basic tool kit (Flat head and Phillips head screwdriver, pliers) or multitool – Leatherman
    • A roll of duct tape
    • Small tarp
    • An ice scraper (more for cold weather)
    • Hand warmers
    • Small folding shovel (opt for cold weather but also for off road adventures)
    • Fix-a –flat
    • Fire extinguisher
    • Empty gas container
    • Roadside flares
    • Tow strap
    • Emergency escape tool with pocketknife
    • Firestarter/ matches
    • Maps, city and state
    • I bought a sun visor thingy that holds my escape tool in the sunglass slot, tire gauge, maps, chapstick and extra hair ties)
    • Emergency gas money (hidden in my car is a $20)
    • Most important: Keep your gas tank at least half full whenever possible.

    Picture of example car it.

    Do some research for yourself- a great start is this link: https://bestreviews.com/best-car-emergency-kits

    My motto is: Be prepared- not scared and consider yourself to be a…

    Picture of Mad Max Road Warrior cartoon.

     

  • K Is For… Knowledge, and Other Smart Things!

    Image from airplane window while flying over two snow-capped volcanos in Washington State USA

    Noony here. As I write this, the U.S. passes the half-million mark of those infected with COVID-19 and my state, Washington, is still under a Stay Home, Stay Healthy order until the end of the month at least. It’s hard to overestimate the trauma caused by this situation: to individuals and families, forced to shelter in place; to the millions experiencing job loss; to the small businesses facing stoppages; children not able to attend classes, prom, and sports games; and a host of other things. This doesn’t even mention the families who have lost loved ones or are currently facing illness.

    During a time like this, unprecedented in its scope to us in modern society, it is incumbent upon us to follow the best knowledge that we can. Here are a few ways to do that:

    1. Remember that the media companies are in business and their business means they need your attention.
    2. Constantly focusing on the negative, whether it’s politics or a health crisis or something else, is unhealthy.
    3. If you do want to find out what’s going on, use good data sources:
      1. In the U.S., that means the doctors who specialize in epidemics and viral disease, such as Dr. Anthony Fauci.
      2. The World Health Organization.
      3. John’s Hopkins University Coronavirus Resource Center.
    4. If you want to learn about the disease itself, The Great Courses Plus has some excellent classes available to subscribers. In the U.S., you can access them through Kanopy via your public library’s electronic learning, or you can subscribe directly to the courses (which I enthusiastically recommend).
    5. Beyond that, ignore the news. Stop focusing on it, going bananas about what this or that person is doing or saying.
    6. Make something.
    7. Meditate.
    8. Garden.
    9. Nap.
    10. Take it easy. Trauma is exhausting. That’s meant literally: it makes our bodies physically tired. Get more rest, and if you’re tired, take a nap.

     

    Knowledge is power, as the saying goes. Read books, write in your journal, and use your mind. It’s easy to become scared in a time like this, particularly if you go online and find so many other scared people. But we need to take a deep breath and remember: we were given a mind for a reason. Use your knowledge. Build your knowledge. Keep calm and carry on.

    It worked for the British during World War II and it can work for us, now.

    Stay well, my friends.

    P.S. Wash your hands.

  • D Is For… Decluttering!

    by Rachel Wilder

    I don’t know about you, but since I’ve sheltered from home my house is cleaner than it’s ever been. It’s been therapeutic for me and a great source of grounding. But now I’m moving on to the next step- decluttering.

    I just have too much stuff.

    So, I’ve watched some videos and gotten inspired. There are many good ones out there and fun to watch. But now is the perfect time to actually get off my butt and do it. I’ve done it before- as I’m sure many others have- but now that I’ve been cooped up in my home I want things neater and place made so everything is put away and has a home that isn’t the corner hidden by my bed or the closet floor.

    I know a few of my other friends are doing it now for various different reasons and I cheer them on. I’m not sure if donation places are open but luckily, I have a storage shed I can put them in until the world is back to normal-whatever that will end up being.

    Image of household items bagged and boxed ready to be given away

    This is a great beginning. Also, this is a good time of year since many of us are putting away our winter clothes.

    I’m getting a lot of satisfaction on doing this. I think, deep down, it’s because this is one aspect of my life I have total control over. And to be honest- I really do have too much stuff. So, I urge to join me. If nothing else, it’ll make room for all of our new stuff when we finally can go out and shop!

    Stay Safe!

  • It’s the A to Z Blog Challenge, and A Is For All of Us, Sheltering At Home

    Photograph of bald eagle, missing one wing, taken at Northwest Trek in Washington State in February 2020

    Welcome to the A to Z Blog Challenge!

    We are all in this together, my friends, during the time of Coronavirus. But it’s also the first day of April, and that means it’s the annual celebration of exuberant blogging, The A to Z Blog Challenge.  And it’s also the Grand Relaunch of the Writer Zen Garden, and ALSO Camp Nanowrimo!

    My lovely fellow above is a Bald Eagle, photographed in February before the shelter in place orders really hit in Washington State. He’s missing one wing but he’s as gorgeous as ever. Fierce and unbowed.

    That’s my wish for all of us, my friends, that we emerge from this fierce and unbowed. Even as I write this, I know with tears in my heart that it’s not possible for many, many people. Families touched by the loss of loved ones, countries devastated by overwhelming losses. And yet, we struggle through and fight to come to grips with the challenges facing us.

    Humanity is, and ever has been, a resilient creature. We have survived enormous hardships from wars and conflicts to natural disasters. And through it all, creators have continued to create: writers write books and poetry, blogs and essays; painters paint oils and acrylics, street art and gallery pieces; dancers dance and design amazing shows that leave us breathless; and on and on through the litany of the arts. What it comes down to is expression.

    And here’s the thing: we are naturally creative. We, as in all of us – you, me, that child over there, that old man living isolated and alone in the upstairs apartment – we are, all of us, creative. And that’s what the A to Z Challenge means to me, at its most distilled: an exuberant outpouring of content creation in the month of April whose only stipulation is that Day 1 is related to A, Day 2 to B, and so on throughout the month with Sundays as rest days. 26 days to correspond to the English language alphabet. One can select a theme, or not, as they choose.

    And thus, we relaunch our website and blog into this atmosphere of unbridled blogging fun and creativity. This year, we have twenty bloggers to share with you: from professional authors and insurance agents, to poets, Reiki masters, life coaches, and a whole lot more besides. Our strength is in our diversity and we welcome you, Dear Reader, to journey through the alphabet with us. We’re glad you’re here. We hope that this provides a small oasis in your life, a place to rest, recover, and recreate within your own heart that solace which we sorely lack during trying times. And if you and yours are touched personally, please know that our hearts go out to you. May we all, collectively, be safe and well.

    Namaste.

    And, happy April!

     

     

  • Craft Circle and General Hangout Virtual Coffee Date Thingie

    Image of entrance to a sea cave with the words Craft in the time of coronavirus: a virtual craft circle with date and time, also detailed in body of the post

    Do you like to do crafts? Any craft, be it knitting, weaving, sewing, or other textile art; drawing, painting, collage, or other paper or canvas art; puzzles; writing; woodworking; cooking? Do you like to hang out with others who like to do that, too? Then join us for a restorative couple hours while we craft, chat, and have coffee (or what have you). We’ll be meeting on Zoom this time, which accommodates up to a hundred people.

    Granted, if we have a hundred people, it’ll be a little crazy and chaotic, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing as an antidote to the pandemic, eh?

    Join us!

    Zoom details as follows:

    Hi there,

    You are invited to a Zoom meeting.
    When: Mar 28, 2020 12:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)

    Register in advance for this meeting:
    https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tZIkdOmqqD4iFnL9ytlkh3dx0_P1ZyYxpQ

    After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.